| These come in an endless variety of
shapes, sizes, colors and materials. Very popular are vibrating eggs
and bullets that can be inserted into the vagina or anus. Eggs are
the shape and size of a small egg. These are available with or
without vibrators and are beautifully painted. They are popular now
as vaginal exercise aids to help women gain strength and control
over their vaginal muscles. Women who have practiced Kegel
exercises, i.e., repetitive contraction and relaxation of the
genital muscles, including the vagina, sometimes graduate to
inserting these vaginal eggs into the vagina and strengthening their
muscles by holding onto the eggs. She may get strong enough to add
weights to the eggs. Imagine your woman doing vaginal weight
lifting!
Bullets are shaped like a bullet and
are usually 2-4 inches long. These can easily be carried in a purse
or pocket. One variation is a tiny vibrator that fits onto the end
of your fingers. Eggs and bullets also come in gold and silver
metal, for example gold ben wa balls. Prices range from under $10 up
to $200.
Some of these toys are a real
combination of high touch - high tech. Consider the 2 x .75 inch
bullet controlled by the new MSX controller which offers twice as
long battery life and better power control. The higher priced ones
offer more precise and variable vibration controls, e.g., an LED
display shows 10 levels of exact power. These high quality
controllers are compatible with many different vibrators. Prices
range from about $90 up. Generally vibrators made in Japan and
Germany are of significantly higher quality (and price).
There is a product called the
Kegelmaster 2000 ($80 USD). This is a progressive resistance vaginal
exerciser. Vaginal muscles respond to use just the same as any other
muscle. It is a lucky man indeed whose partner adds Kegelmaster
exercise to her fitness routine! Women who are advanced in this area
are able to individually control all of the muscles within their
vagina in such a way as to enable their lover to "ride the
elevator". From the opening of the vagina to the cervix at the back,
there are rings of muscles that an adept woman can contract and
relax individually at will. She will grip and release your penis
layer after layer up and down its length with you fully inside of
her. This is riding the elevator. If you combine riding the elevator
with riding the wave of bliss at the peak of your sexual arousal
before ejaculation, few experiences of pleasure will compare with
this. You will never forget the experience. Another variation is the
Kegel Pro ($50 USD).
The Kegelmaster is also excellent to
help women overcome or avoid the problem of urinary incontinence.
"Urinary incontinence is associated with weak pubococcygeal muscles,
and can often be corrected. Biofeedback with a perineometer can help
measure improvement in the muscles which can be strengthened by an
exercise program. Women with this problem (1 out of 3 over age 35)
don't have to resign themselves to depending on diapers." Cutler
WB, Friedmann E, Genovese-Stone E, and Felmet K (1992) Urinary
stress incontinence: a pervasive problem among well women, J
Wmns Health Vol 1:4. " My research has consistently focussed on
what behavior a woman can engage in to increase her power,
well-being, vitality and sexual pleasure." Winnifred B. Cutler,
Ph.D.
There are also many
vibrators
specifically designed to stimulate the clitoris (as opposed to being
inserted into the vagina or anus) by vibrating and rotating. Almost
all of these vibrators have dual multi-speed controls. One control
rotates within the vibrator shaft. The other engine vibrates the
shaft and clitoral stimulator. Some of these vibrators also have
beads in the center of the shaft to enhance the feeling from the
inner multi-speed rotation.
Vibrators can be electrical (plug
into a wall outlet and may be rechargeable), may have wireless
remote control up to 50 feet away, or they can be powered with
batteries. Electric vibrators provide a better quality alternative
to battery-powered vibrators, with stronger vibrations, warrantees,
will last for years, and are much more expensive. Battery powered
vibrators tend to be more versatile, more portable, offer softer
vibrations, and are much less expensive. Hard plastic battery
vibrators tend to be louder than soft rubber vibrators. If it is
important to be very quiet, keep this in mind. Most people seem to
find the hard plastic vibrators better for external stimulation and
the soft rubber vibrators preferable for internal stimulation,
because the hard plastic transmits stronger vibrations than the soft
rubber.
Many vibrators are manufactured
in micro sizes. Some vibrators may be worn discretely under a
woman's clothing, or carried in a pocket and no one would know they
are there. This can add a very interesting variation to standing in
line at a bank or grocery store! You can also wear them during sex.
Some are waterproof and can be used in the bathtub. There is one
that plugs into the cigarette lighter of your car (useful for those
long boring drives). There are even battery operated vibrating
panties for women and a vibrating thong for men!
Consider this description: "Venus
Butterfly was developed exclusively for women. This unique pleasure
device can be worn anywhere, providing maximum freedom of use, even
in public, yet allowing ultimate privacy. It is specifically
intended to stimulate the most sensitive parts of the female
anatomy. The continuous control wire remote power pack can easily be
slipped into a pocket. Adjustable straps fit comfortably around the
waist and legs and the unit comes ready for use. The Venus Butterfly
massager will turn an ordinary day into an exciting erotic
adventure."
One vibrator called the Dragon Lady
automatically changes rotation direction. The Pink Pachyderm has
gyrating head, quivering tusks, and a tickling tail. Rare Gems super
soft crystal head pivots and rotates in both directions; pearl beads
inside the vibrator swirl and the clit massager vibrates. The
mulit-speed vibrations are powerful and quiet from a Japanese
quality motor. These are quite lovely to look at!
A popular variation of the
clitoral/vaginal vibrator is The Tongue by Lady Calston, a Canadian
manufacturer. There are other "tongue" manufacturers as well. Here
is how one manufactured in Japan is described: "The 8 inch long
Tongue twirls, spins, flicks and wiggles with multi-speed
vibrations, while it rotates a full 360 degree circle. Dual
controlled by Japanese high tech quality integrated chip controller."
Holy high tech, Batman! The name suggests a certain feel of the
material that The Tongue is made of, as well as the motions this
vibrator is capable of making.
In a class all by itself is The
Eroscillator, recommended by none other than Dr. Ruth. The
Eroscillator is not to be confused with vibrators. It does what no
vibrator can, it oscillates, rather than vibrates, at 3600 constant
oscillations per minute. This unique back and forth motion,
delivered with a gentle touch, produces highly erotic sensations and
intense orgasms.
Women can learn to experience many
different types of genital orgasm from both external (clitoral)
stimulation and internal (g-spot and other vaginal) stimulation.
Each woman has her own "orgasmic fingerprint". Get to know your
woman's. Take your time to relax, tease and please her with a
variety of toys, your tongue, your fingers, your penis. Using
vibrators clitorally is a particularly helpful way to assist a woman
to become orgasmic.
Vibrators & Massagers
Wireless Remote
Hi-Tech
Clitoris and Nipple Suckers
Eggs and Bullets
Multi-Function Vibes
G-Spot
Waterproof
Electric
Body Massagers
Vibrator with harness
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