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Clitoris Stimulation can be done by using hands and
fingers to rub and stimulate the clitoris.
   
Most women do not experience orgasm
through intercourse alone and unfortunately many men have not yet
learned to delay ejaculation long enough to give their partner
satisfaction during intercourse. We recommend helping your woman to
have a clitoral orgasm using oral or manual stimulation before there
is any penetration with the penis. Cunnilingus is preferred to
manual stimulation with your fingers, because the hands can be rough
and may not have the softness required for the extremely sensitive
vaginal tissues. The tissues of the lips and tongue are of the same
sensitivity as the tissues of the vagina.
It is very difficult to stimulate
either the clitoris or the G-spot with vaginal penetration by the
man's penis. The clitoris can be stimulated to some extent by the
weight of the man's body against it. If the man holds himself above
the woman, supporting his weight with his arms extended, he can
possibly move the penis in such a way that it rubs across the
clitoris with an in-out motion of the penis. The Goddess spot can be
stimulated to some extent if the man enters from the rear. The woman
is lying face down with her buttocks lifted into the air. She can
support her abdomen with pillows. The man can then insert the penis
into the vagina with a shallow thrust and this angle may make it
possible for the tip of the penis to rub against the G-spot.
There are vibrators designed to reach
both the clitoris and G-spot at the same time, e.g., the G-spot
Tango Vibrator. Another version, The Ladybug, is a small personal
vibrator which stimulates the pelvis while two feelers surround the
clitoris with exquisite vibration. The Ladybug can be worn during
intercourse, allowing full penetration or alone for intense private
pleasure. New 'softer than skin' material adds comfort to every
erotic experience.
It is important to know where to look
for the Goddess spot, but it is equally important to know when to
look. The G-spot is approximately 1-2 inches inside the vagina on
the upper wall. If a man inserts his middle finger up to about the
second knuckle and rubs the tip of his finger against the spongy
tissue of the upper wall of the vagina he is in the right area to
find the G-spot. But he is not likely to find it unless he is
looking at the right time. The right time is after the woman is very
highly aroused, or better still, after she has already had a
clitoral orgasm. This is because you may or may not actually feel
any difference to the touch of your finger against her vaginal
tissues even if you do touch the right spot, and also because many
women actually find stimulation of the G-spot unpleasant until they
are sufficiently aroused.
In some women, but not all of them,
stimulation of this area may cause it to swell and may lead to
deeper vaginal orgasms, and possibly to female ejaculatory orgasms.
Not all women like to have this area stimulated even after they are
fully aroused. The only way to know for sure is to find it and try.
If she does like to have her Goddess spot touched and she is
sufficiently aroused, when you do touch it you should get a strong
reaction of pleasure from her! This spot, once properly awakened is
so intensely pleasurable, that she will almost certainly let you
know with sounds, words, and body movement, how much she likes it
when you touch her there in the right way at the right time.
Dildos can be useful in this
instance. A dildo artfully applied in lovemaking can help a woman to
go on from clitoral to the deeper vaginal orgasms, including
ejaculatory orgasms. The dildo can be used before there is any
penetration with the penis. Or the man may withdraw his penis for a
rest, and apply the dildo in its place. This alternating penetration
with your penis and with a dildo can be repeated as often as
necessary to enable the man to delay ejaculation and successfully
extend the active lovemaking for hours at a time. The dildo can also
be used after the man has ejaculated. In this way even the most
aroused and hungry woman can be given complete satisfaction
regardless of your capacity to maintain an erection or delay
ejaculation.
There are dildos specifically
designed to reach the G-spot. They have a crook in the end, so that
when they are inserted into the vagina, the crook can be turned to
exactly the right angle to reach the Goddess spot and drive her wild
with excitement. If you can find the G-spot and stimulate it until
your woman has her first vaginal orgasm, this is the perfect time to
insert your penis. You are still fresh and she may be so highly
aroused that she immediately goes on to have multiple deep vaginal
orgasms within minutes of your penetration. She may even ejaculate.
If you have never experienced it when
your woman ejaculates, it is a wonder to behold. No one knows how
many women could learn to have vaginal ejaculatory orgasms, but many
women stop themselves because they feel as if they were going to
urinate. It is a good idea to make sure she urinates before
lovemaking starts, so she will know that the feeling she has does
not mean she has to urinate. If she can relax enough to get beyond
this feeling of having to urinate, this type of orgasm may be the
most intense she will ever have. The fluid that is ejaculated can be
quite a quantity - she can really soak the bed, but it is clear,
odorless, tasteless, and does not stain! This fluid is not urine.
Knowing this may help her to let go into this wonderful experience.
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